Monday, January 19, 2009

Two thoughts on headcovering

So I keep beating this drum, and I imagine that those few hardy souls who read this blog are getting sick to death of hearing about it and frankly I am getting a little weary of writing about it. Having said that, I find myself writing about head covering again because I really think that this issue is one that exposes the disconnect between what is said and what is practiced in so many churches. It is said that this church or that is all about the inerrancy and infallibility of the Scripture, but there are still places where church traditions run contrary to the Word, and too often the tradition wins. The wearing of headcovers is kind of my poster child for the need for reformation in the church, not because I think that if all Christian women start to cover their heads it will fix all of the problems in the church but because it is an issue that really gets under the skin of the traditionalists in the institutional church. It is interesting the reaction some people have to this issue. Many people give it careful and prayerful study and consideration. Not all of them come to the same conclusion but at least they are working through the issue. However some people see this issue as a threat to their traditions and as such seek to quash it. Often times the source of this hostility is the pulpit or the pen of “learned” men. Some men preach on this text when they come across it through expository preaching and some men preach on it to make some sort of point. When you preach with a personal agenda instead of preaching the Word, you are on shaky ground.

What kind of set me off again was that I read John MacArthur in a sermon dealing with the first half of 1 Corinthians 11 called The Subordination and Equality of Women . One of his opening paragraphs says:

To try to understand exactly what the situation was in the city of Corinth secularly, what it was in the church of Corinth in terms of the spiritual life, what was going on in the mind of Paul and push all of that up into the modern day is not easy. We don't have a lot of background.

It is intersting that Dr. MacArthur admits that we don't have a lot of the background on Corinth, but that doesn't stop him from using that limited knowledge to deny what Paul wrote. Dr. MacArthur’s mantra regarding headcovering is: It's cultural, it's cultural, and it’s cultural! But in other places, he argues just the opposite about other Scriptural issues regarding men and women. Biblical complementarians have a rocky path when affirming Biblical roles for men and women against the prevailing culture on one hand but then appealing to cultural norms and practices to reject women covering their heads on the other.

So I have two points that have come to mind regarding the practice of head covering.

The first goes back to the primary argument against headcovering, the culture of Corinth argument. The argument that headcovering is cultural and reserved for Corinth at that time and in that place only can sound great on the surface, and indeed much of the reasoning is sound. There is only one problem. The culture argument doesn't exist. Paul nowhere in 1 Corinthians 11 refers to head covering as a cultural issue or one reserved for Corinth. He barely speaks of Corinth at all. The language he uses is anything but specific to Corinth but is instead appealing to universal doctrines of creation order, of Biblical headship, of submission.

What the “it is only cultural” arguments try to do is impose a cultural framework, a cultural explanation for headcovering where one doesn't exist in the Scriptures. It may be true that headcovering was a tradition of Corinth, but that is irrelevant to the text because Paul does not appeal to or refer to that cultural tradition of Corinth at all. In fact the traditions he does refer to are traditions that he taught them, not local traditions: …maintain the traditions even as I delivered them to you.(1 Cor 11:2, emphasis added). Paul certainly did not deliver the traditions of Corinth to the Corinthian people. That would be like someone from India flying to Boston on St. Patrick’s Day to deliver the traditional Irish celebration of that holiday. So how does it make any sense to assume that Paul is speaking of Corinthian traditions when he explicitly says to maintain the traditions he brought and makes no mention of the alleged Corinthian traditions at all? All throughout the New Testament we make universal applications of teachings addressed to specific locales. Even in 1 Corinthians 1 we see the admonition of Paul against factions within the church. That was a problem apparently in Corinth because he specifically says it was an issue, but the application is universal. What about 1 Corinthians 5? I assume that no one brushes off the admonition against having relations with your step-mom as being a cultural issue!

What we see is the taking of a cultural norm, and I am not sure if it really is a cultural norm in Corinth or not, I am just taking their word for it, and then assuming that is what the Scripture is speaking of. I would hazard that many of the men who throw the “Corinthian culture” argument out really don’t know a thing about the culture in Corinth outside of what they have read someone else say about Corinthian culture. Good, solid, conservative Christian teachers would reject the idea of applying external culture to the Scripture in issues ranging from women teachers to divorce to homosexuality. Yet they will stumble over themselves in finding alleged cultural norms in Corinth to explain away headcovering. The modus operandi is to throw out some assertions about life in Corinth, say that is what Paul is talking about, quote a couple of famous contemporary Bible teachers and then slip out the back door. There is a logical fallacy here. Just because a condition exists does not in and of itself require that it is the underlying issue especially when Paul makes no mention of the culture of Corinth in relation to head covering. None.

The second point is this. Even if you say that 1 Corinthians 11 is speaking of headcovering as a cultural manifestation of a wife's Biblical submission to her husband, which I reject but go with it for a second, doesn't that mean that even if headcovering itself is not a universal principle, then the principle of a wife exhibiting submission publicly to her husband is a universal principle? Verse 10 says: That is why a wife ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels. (1 Cor 11:10). If we say that headcovering itself was a cultural symbol, the underlying universal principle is that women should exhibit some sort of sign of the authority of her husband. But what symbol of submission do we see in our culture? Honestly, outside of headcovering there isn't one. I have already dealt with the wedding ring, that is clearly not a sign of submission. Some of the most cowed men in America have wives wearing rings. So what else is there? Is there a suitable substitute? Can proper behavior substitute for a sign or symbol of authority? If an angel or messenger or visitor sees women in church with heads bowed and praying, how can they tell who are living under the Biblical authority of their husbands without a visible sign? How can we tell a woman who accepts and embraces the authority of her husband from one who doesn’t? Maybe they can wear little buttons with an “S” for submissive? Or maybe, just maybe, they could wear a covering on their head.

I can assure you of this, within the church, a woman who is wearing a headcovering is seen as exhibiting submission to her husband. Many of the feminized, egalitarian, "submissive in name alone" women in church will pity the poor thing but they will understand what she is doing even in today's Biblically illiterate church. I am one of the few male bloggers who speak of headcovering, most of the advocates of headcovering are women and their husbands are the reluctant ones. Those women are not poor repressed creatures, they are seeking to walk more closely in accord with the Word and that should be praiseworthy and not downtrodden by self-proclaimed learned men. Would that more Christians sought a closer walk of obedience to Scripture in deed and not just word! I am convinced that for the majority of women in the church, the issue has little to do with head covering in and of itself, rather it is a visceral reaction to being told what to do coupled with a reluctance on the part of men to tell them what they should be doing. I get nauseous when I listen to or read of men from the pulpit dealing with Ephesians 5:22 or 1 Timothy 2:12 stammering or wringing their hands or telling jokes or worst of all apologizing to avoid the wrath of women because they are afraid to preach what God's Word says for fear of offense. Man up and preach the Word boldly or sit down and be quiet! If you cause offense to the unruly and disobedient and they stop giving, get a job and keep preaching!

Ultimately the practice of headcovering should have one goal, that is of giving glory to God. 1 Corinthians 10: 31 says So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God. What we do, we ought to do for the glory of God. If you cover your head or if your wife covers her head, it ought to be done out of obedience to the Word in command and out of Biblical submission. But above all it should be done to the glory of God. Not so you can seem externally more pious than your neighbor, or so you can use it as an exclusion of others but as a humble submission to the apostle’s teaching.

(To those who rail against headcovering, how is doing so bringing glory to God?)

22 comments:

Anonymous said...

Um...basically you said everything I've been thinking about this. If these few verses are cultural and only for the Corinthians, then it's all cultural and only for the Corinthians. Either it applies to us, or it doesn't. I do find it so surprising that Piper, MacArthur, et al who are such big proponents of biblical gender roles (and rightly so!) balk at those who explain away Ephesians 5 as culturally irrelevant, but don't take that same stance on headcovering. I just keep asking myself, what is it about headcovering that threatens us so? Even before I started learning and being convicted about it, I didn't have a hostile attitude towards it--I just didn't think about it. Why is it that people react so strongly against it? That makes it seem to me that maybe there is some serious importance here, or it wouldn't be such a big deal. It's kind of like the militant atheists and their hatred of God--why do you feel so strongly about something that doesn't exist? Because deep down, you're convicted about your own sin.

Arthur Sido said...

April,

I have wondered that as well. The conclusion I have come to is not a comforting one and it is not intended as a slander of good men. Standing up for what is right can be unpopular. Being unpopular can be hard when you are revered by millions, when you have a worldwide ministry, when you get invited to all the right conferences. If “Famous Pastor A” stood up and said that he has come under conviction that wives should cover their heads, some people would embrace that and many, many people would reject it. It is easy to be orthodox when it is intellectual and doesn’t require anything of us. It is much harder when we perceive that we need to sacrifice something.

Look at men like Voddie Baucham or Paul Washer. These brothers are amazingly gifted preachers but they could be even more famous than they are if they would cut back on some of the rhetoric. Tone it down and they could sell more books. Dial it back and they would have more than a fringe following. When Voddie Baucham preaches about public schools being the schools of Caesar, that makes people uncomfortable or mad or perhaps it even convicts parents who send their children to public schools. That is why they don’t get invited to the really big conferences. I go to lots of reformed theology conferences and I am going to one in a couple of months. I am always edified by what I hear, it is great teaching and preaching, but I am rarely confronted and challenged by what I hear. You put Washer or Baucham on stage and I guarantee you are going to get challenged. I like being in my Reformed club, being on the Together for the Gospel cooperation map that only other T4G attendees can access. It has become pretty easy to be Reformed these days, it is like a big club. I don’t expect much from semi-pelagian pastors who are trying to cram as many decisional “Christians” into the baptismal font as they can, but I am disappointed in many of the leaders of the Reformed camp. I think other than R.C. Sproul, none of the big names are headcovering proponents.

Geez, that comment was like a whole post.

Anonymous said...

I keep seeing the term "semi-pelagianism" around the net. What does it mean?

Arthur Sido said...

Now that is a question that is more than I can handle in a comment. Basically it is a watered down version of pelagianism, which gets it name from an early heretic named Pelagius. In a nutshell, it assume that mankind is capable on our own of seeking out God without God first initiating a change of heart. It is probably the unspoken majority view of the modern decision based evangelical church, and provides the theological grounds for decisional evangelism/altar calls.

Check these articles out from theopedia, which is a handy resource I have bookmarked at home...

http://www.theopedia.com/Semi-Pelagianism

http://www.theopedia.com/Pelagianism

For more in-depth info, see monergism's articles (monergism is the one page you should definitely book mark, after mine of course)

http://www.monergism.com/directory/link_category/Arminianism/Semi-Pelagianism/

Anonymous said...

Hi Arthur,
Just one little comment....
"I can assure you of this, within the church, a woman who is wearing a headcovering is seen as exhibiting submission to her husband." Hmmm.... not true in my case. I assume there's a tie to the Mennonite or Amish, or an offshoot thereof. They are the only groups I know of who always cover. And, as I've mentioned before, the only IRL (local) person I know who covers gives an entirely different reason for covering - that the Bible says only the husband should see his wife's hair, basically saying that it's more of an intimacy issue than a submission issue.

Oops - I guess I did know someone else who covered for church. I had a co-worker a while ago who insisted that women should always wear hats to church. She never indicated that it was a submission issue, either. The hat went along with the gloves that were also required clothing for church, and the fact that you could only wear white shoes between Memorial Day and Labor Day. Maybe that's a lot of the trouble with people's views on headcovering - it's been mixed up with other things and misrepresented for so long that people see it as a cultural or legalistic rule, and just dismiss it without really studying it.

Sorry - got longer than just a comment! Just more random thoughts on the issue.

Arthur Sido said...

Debbie,

OK, i am normally good with acronyms, but IRL?

At the very least, when you see a woman covering you assume something is going on.

The individual in question, if it is who I am assuming it is, is missing the theological reason for headcovering especially since we could all see most of her hair. I actually assumed that they were Amish or Menonite as well. The Amish and conservative Mennonites cover as prayer covers, but it is as much about submission to the Word as it is submission to your husband.

The hats issue is interesting because a lot of older women wore hats to church because it was traditional but they probably have no idea WHY it was a tradition or what the theological background is.

Having said all that, are you covering your head to pray yet?

Anonymous said...

IRL = in real life. Sorry about that....

Have you done research that says that women used to wear hats to church because of 1 Cor. 11? I've heard that, but I wonder. I always thought that church was just the last place to lose the everyday hat tradition. When you look at older styles (1920s, '30s, etc.), a hat is usually part of being nicely dressed and stylish. Women usually wore them in public. Did that really have anything to do with Biblical submission?

No, I'm not covering. The idea of it throws dh into a bit of a tizzy, so it's on a back burner for me....

The Beshores said...

Amen, Amen, and Amen Arthur! You took the words right out of my mouth. I too have a problem understanding why those I respect such as Macarthur, Piper, my pastor and others dismiss it is merely cultural or don't ever even address the topic at all. (BTW I go to Washer's church in Alabama and we're having the True Church Conference with Voddie and others next month.) It doesn't make logical sense to do so when you don't take that stance regarding the rest of 1 Corinthians.

I also enjoyed reading the dialogue between you and April. The opposition I get a lot of times besides the cultural one is that it was only about hair, which makes no sense because you can't shave your head if it's already shorn. The answer to that from my opposition was that the hair wasn't necessarily shorn, but short. Who determines then what is considered long enough hair to be a covering? They also quote where it says that hair was given as a natural covering.

Also, other opposition I've had is that at the end of the section, it says if anyone is contentious, we have no such custom. This supposedly then means that if anyone thinks they should wear a cloth on their head, Paul had no such custom, because apparently it was only a custom and only cultural, etc. Does this make sense? I get this argument a lot. Do you have a rebuttal for that?

I wish I could defend headcoverings as well as you do, but I'm not doing it because I can defend it well, but because I believe the Lord has led me to do it and I believe the Bible says to do so, whether I can prove that point well enough or not. End of story. Thanks for your post!

Melissa

http://titus2wifeandmommy.blogspot.com (Christian women resource blog.)

http://happyhomestead.etsy.com (Christian headcoverings and more.)

Arthur Sido said...

Debbie, really your dh is in a tizzy virtually all the time abour something, so what is one more issue!

Anecdotally and in images and writings it certainly appears that headcovering was the norm in the church up until recently. Not just in protestant churches either, my mom remembers when women at Roman catholic churches wore coverings and russian orthodox women still do. I would say by the time it started to go out of fashion hats had become a tradition instead of a sign of submission, esp. when the hats became more and more ornate which kind of defeats the purpose.

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Katie said...

I agree that most people know something is going on when they see a head covering- exactly what they associate it with though, depends a lot on how exposed they've been to the different ways people practice. Someone in rural Pennsylvania or northern Indiana would probably have a completely different assumption to a headcovering than a NYC resident or someone from Southern California...(nothing against anyone from any of those regions).

"If an angel or messenger or visitor sees women in church with heads bowed and praying, how can they tell who are living under the Biblical authority of their husbands without a visible sign..." Does that explain the "angels" part of 1 Cor 11:10? I've heard these scriptures preached on all my life, but never really understood the "angels" part. What you say makes sense though, because angels cannot see our hearts, thoughts, and motives (right? maybe that doesn't even apply)?

Jennifer said...

KT, I have written many articles on headcovering on my blog, Reformed SHEology. You can click on the "headcovering" label and go to the first post "Discovering Headcovering" where I address 1 Corinthians 11:10. The headcovering, in my opinion, is not an "identifier" to the angels. (otherwise, how could they tell a Muslim woman from a Christian woman?) The angels know who we are, cover or no cover. Rather, I believe vs. 10 is telling us to cover because there are two kinds of angels - those who remained in submission to God, and those who chose to rebel. I personally believe the headcovering is nothing more than a symbol - a flag of sorts, showing the fallen angels whose team you are on. As a single woman, I cover as an act of spritual warfare, showing my allegiance to Christ. Hope this helps!

Arthur Sido said...

Hey Jennifer, no poaching my readers with links to your page!

I like your explanation, that is a tough verse but I think you are on the right track with that.

Katie said...

That is good, Jennifer. Thanks!

And, Aurthur- I'll try not to completely abandon your blog in my urge to check out Jennifer's. :)

Anonymous said...

ICorinth 11:10 "Therefore the woman ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels. Paul does not mention because of the culture. Why - because of the angels. It seems by this passage God must allow the angels to view church worship.How much and how often I donot know that is God's business.

Unknown said...

I know of ladies who always cover that are not Mennonite or Amish, They are just ladies who saw the truth in the word, I have been Covering for 21 Years now, I am not Mennonite or Amish. I just see the truth as it is written.
studyingtheword77@gmail.com
Karen

Anonymous said...

Interesting post. You said,

"If an angel or messenger or visitor sees women in church with heads bowed and praying, how can they tell who are living under the Biblical authority of their husbands without a visible sign? How can we tell a woman who accepts and embraces the authority of her husband from one who doesn’t?"

My thought is this: wearing a headcovering doesn't prove that a wife is truly submissive where most important - in the heart. She could be rebellious, but be giving in to the norm in her church to wear a covering just to avoid confrontation.

Sadly, I've known women just like this.

Arthur Sido said...

Anonymous,

I would agree that there are women who cover just because that is what everyone else does. I don't think we should reject the whole thing because some women cover inappropriately. I would rather some women cover for the right reasons and be obedient to Scripture than to have no woemn cover because some women do it improperly.

Anonymous said...

Our Church of over 300 people believe in headcovering. We are not Amish or Menonite...or any break off of them. Just a Church believing in Gods word and applying it to our everyday lives. We have been doing it since the beginning of our church 40 years ago. The woman cover their head in Church and when praying.

Katy said...

No one else in my church covers, but I have been doing so for over a month now. I feel that it is biblically called for and I do it out of obedience to the Word and submission to my husband. :) I agree with your post! :)

Anonymous said...

As a covering sister led to cover by the WORD and in SPIRIT in a place where absolutely no one does and they think it unnecessary, I commend you. Blessings in the name of the LORD JESUS CHRIST. There is a spiritual awakening of many women who are now being led so be in good cheer, you are not alone on seeing TRUTH!

WilliamB said...

Any time a woman prays. The context is for every setting. If he had the gathered church in mind, he would not have mentioned women prophesying. Look at the previous chapter, he had not yet started talking about church meeting policy or practice. Church meeting context doesn't come until the next subject - a subject about which he does not praise them. Certainly however, if they pray (silently) in the church, they should cover their heads while praying in the church.

Thanks for your post.